{"id":1318,"date":"2015-02-18T13:41:00","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T12:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lenoarmi.com\/2015\/02\/18\/ejemplo-practico-gestion-de-emociones-2\/"},"modified":"2017-12-04T02:25:05","modified_gmt":"2017-12-04T00:25:05","slug":"ejemplo-practico-gestion-de-emociones-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lenoarmi.com\/en\/blog\/2015\/02\/18\/ejemplo-practico-gestion-de-emociones-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Ejemplo pr\u00e1ctico – Gesti\u00f3n de emociones"},"content":{"rendered":"

\nTal como os prometimos ayer, este es un ejemplo practico que ilustra el tema:<\/p>\n

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\nMam\u00e1: Cari\u00f1o ha venido tu abuela Mar\u00eda. Ve a darle un beso.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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\nNi\u00f1o: No quiero. <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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\nMam\u00e1: \u00bfC\u00f3mo que no quieres? Esto est\u00e1 mal. \u00a1Eres un ni\u00f1o malo!: La abuela Mar\u00eda te quiere mucho y t\u00fa no la quieres. Mam\u00e1 no te querr\u00e1 tampoco.<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
\n<\/a><\/div>\n

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\nA partir de aqu\u00ed puede haber dos opciones o el ni\u00f1o monta un pataleta del tipo: \u00a1eres tonta y la abuela mar\u00eda tambi\u00e9n! y ya la tenemos liada. O bien, ante la idea de perder el amor de su madre, va y le da un beso la abuela, a lo que su madre responde: \u201c\u00a1Que bien! As\u00ed me gusta \u00a1Qu\u00e9 bueno eres!\u201d con lo que el ni\u00f1o aprende que es bueno cuando no se porta como \u00e9l siente y que solo obra bien cuando hace lo \u00fanico que quiere su madre. Es decir, se nos quiere cuando disfrazamos nuestros sentimientos.<\/i><\/div>\n

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\nNinguna de las dos soluciones es correcta, porque en ning\u00fan momento hemos evitado atacar la personalidad del ni\u00f1o (eres malo) y hemos valorado su conducta (esto esta mal o esto est\u00e1 bien). Si en lugar de ello hubi\u00e9ramos entendido sus emociones, a pesar de mostrar nuestra disconformidad, el resultado podr\u00eda haber sido:<\/i><\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: cari\u00f1o ha venido la abuela Mar\u00eda . Ve a darle un beso. <\/div>\n
\nNi\u00f1o: No quiero. <\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: Vaya, parece que no te apetece dar un beso a la abuela. (reconocemos sus sentimientos). <\/div>\n
\nNi\u00f1o: S\u00ed. <\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: Cuando las personas van de visita a casa de otra se les da un beso de bienvenida, aunque en ese momento no se tengan muchas ganas \u00bflo sab\u00edas? <\/div>\n
\nNi\u00f1o: No. (Y si dice que s\u00ed, es lo mismo). <\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: \u00bfvamos pues a darle un beso de bienvenida a abuela Mar\u00eda ?<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\n(S\u00ed dice que No….) <\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: El hecho de que no se lo des me disgusta, porque en esta casa intentamos que la gente se sienta bien. \u00bfQu\u00e9 podemos hacer para que la abuela se sienta bien sin tu beso?<\/div>\n
\nNi\u00f1o: le dir\u00e9 hola y le tiro un beso. <\/div>\n
\nMam\u00e1: Me parece que has encontrado una soluci\u00f3n que nos va a gustar a todos. \u00a1Vamos!<\/div>\n
\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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